While a person wonders whether to get married or continue to date, questions about the pros and cons of either option will likely arise.
He may focus on the freedom that comes with being able to date, or he may be more into the idea that marriage provides a sort of sanctuary from the outside world, as well as safe place to be himself.
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Get an overpriced ring, choose a suitable date, get down on your knees and say the obvious to which she will readily agree.
In October of 2009, Alice Zhao's boyfriend gave her a gift to celebrate the one-year anniversary of their first date: a Word document containing all of the text messages they'd exchanged during the previous year. This October, to commemorate their sixth year together, Zhao took that Word doc and expanded it.
She took the texts from their first year together and then compared them to another set of data she'd gathered: texts from their sixth year—a year that saw the two transitioning from engaged to newlywed.
Marriage, on the other hand, is a legally binding commitment to one individual with which there is an intimate bond which matures over time. Both types of relationships can be fulfilling for those involved yet still have their separate advantages and disadvantages which are linked to physical, mental and financial well-being.
) Dating offers the advantages of variety of choice in intimate partners. There is little to no pressure in having to commit to one particular individual, freedom to socialize with several different individuals with whom you have a connection.
If you decide to get married, you will probably be happier in general.
What Zhao found was, if not scientifically rigorous, then romantically revealing.
First, she compared some of the most commonly-used terms in the couple's text messages—"love," "ok," "dinner," and, yes, "hey"—looking at their distribution in year one versus year six.
Marriage provides the opportunity to be yourself with someone who will accept you, as well as help you get through life's challenges.
If you decide to date and put off marriage, the chances of your relationship ending are higher since you are not legally bound to your partner.